Friday, December 5, 2008

BlissQuest: Speaking Your Wish Aloud

I'm thinking gnomes prefer this weather.
(December Views)

Listening to: Giggles galore over this one -- a favorite song of mine -- and look how much fun they are having!

Bliss: The sun reflecting off the fresh snow. Fluffy, easy to shovel snow. The kind where each flake still seems individuated though it has become part of the larger mass.

A few years ago, Marcy's cousin was visiting from England, where he has lived since his college days. We went out to lunch and then walked down to the bay and sat on the dock, watching the water and the boats and the gulls. At the time, he and I had been sharing our writing projects. Mine were mostly poetry and a children's book; his was the start of a novel.

So we got to talking about the writing life and the isolation aspects of it. He was figuring out that he did not like the isolation and was uncomfortable enough with it that he was perhaps going to hang up his quill and move onto other things.

He asked me if there was one thing I felt like I was really needing, here, in this small town, away from the hustle and bustle of New York City and its publishing industry and universities and writing programs.

Yep, I said immediately, a little time with other writers.

I, unlike him, do not mind the isolation, and actually, I can go a little batty without a fair dose every day. I am part hermit but also part social butterfly. Yet, the hermit is a wee bit larger than the butterfly. (I think I hear my partner laughing over the "wee bit" of that sentence.)

But to write and write and write in a garret (both literal and metaphorical) and never to have a reader besides someone who loves you (as discerning and critical and helpful as she may be), that can get a little wearisome.

So that day on the dock by the bay (yes, yes, the song...sorry), I put out that need and the universe responded almost immediately.

Before I knew it, I was teaching creative writing at the art museum, and not too long after that, I had a group of wonderful people coming to my house every week, and I, too, was handing out my stuff. Because of my acknowledgment of that need that day on the dock, I was suddenly writing a novel...and suddenly finishing.

In the meantime, life intervened, and the writing group broke up.

But we are back! There are just five of us (including my partner now who is a wonderful painter and writer), but these other three...well, they are wonderful people and enthusiastic and committed writers, and I am lucky to have them helping me cut my novel from an unbearable 500 pages to (hopefully) 300.

I think if I had not spoken that secret heart wish out loud that day my life would be so different.

I would not have a complete manuscript to be cutting.

I would not know these people.

I would not have started blogging.

What secret wish do you need to speak aloud?

Share it here. To say it to another gives it power.

I have witnessed firsthand the truth of that.

An updated version of that mini juniper:
a mere 24 hours later.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

I wish for an apartment, so I can live alone and enjoy some of that blissful isolation you mentioned..

I wish for a mentor, to guide me in the direction I need as I'm uncovering so many great things about energy, yoga, Qi Gong, and meditation, and how this might translate into following my own bliss..

MoNYC said...

I wish to finish my master's project.

I wish to become a veterinarian.

pam said...

I wish for a clear sense of purpose and direction with my writing and workshops. I think I wish to make a career speaking and writing, but it scares me.

There! I said it out loud (virtually, anyway). Thanks!
Come, universe, come!

Barbara said...

I wish for an upsurge in energy. There is so much out there to do.

Lisa said...

I wish to be able to make a sustainable financial living by sharing my natural gifts/talents/wisdom with the world. (And to cut through all the 'crap' that apparently is needing to happen for me to get from here to there!)

blisschick said...

Thank you all for sharing these wishes and intentions. I will focus on them; we can all focus on them, and perhaps others will join us. :)

Barbara said...

Our deepest yearnings are how the Divine speaks within us. Believe you have received it and it is yours. (paraphrased from the Gospel of Mark somewhere).

Val said...

I'm good. No wishes here. I am completely open to the journey as it unravels before me.

(I probably wouldn't have answered that way a year ago, though...)

Jessica Dawn said...

I wish for a peaceful existence with my two beautiful children. A world filled with all the wonders of this world opened up to them so they can see life is beautiful.

Raine-Lee said...

I wish to own a house with my significant other that we can decorate and feel safe in.

blisschick said...

My favorite way to focus on, pray on my hopes and dreams for myself or others is through candle lighting -- which I will do for all of you.