
This week, Marcy and I had some (expected) bad news, and as I write this, we are awaiting more of the same. Two relatively young people passing in one week makes you stop and think, doesn't it?
The woman about whom we are awaiting news is/was an amazing individual. Susan was full of faith and she lived that faith in a way that we don't see very often. She gave love; she was love. Susan appreciated every moment of her life, even saying she would choose the same all over again.
That is enlightenment right there.
As you can imagine, I've been a bit on the distracted side and writing has not come easily. Thinking about this post for today, I wondered how I could put sentences together and what they could possibly be about, considering the Big Things that are happening around us.
Then I remembered that I had intended to return to this topic of resisting our bliss.
Susan lived her bliss every minute of every day. She never said "no" to anything.
She knew that, as the Borg on Star Trek would say, "Resistance is Futile."
Now, the Borg mean "Don't fight 'cause we're stronger than you," but if you look at the definition of futile, I think the phrase would make an excellent mantra in answer to the question "Why do we resist our bliss?"
Futile: incapable of producing
any useful result; pointless.
any useful result; pointless.
Every time we resist our Bliss, our Faith, our Love, our Yes, we are turning our backs on life, we are producing nothing but pain, we are engaging in a pointless exercise.
I have come to a huge conclusion this week, and it is this:
As with most of the Big Questions in life, the "Why" is inconsequential.
The better, more important question is "what are you going to do about it?"
(Photo Credit: Christine C. Reed, Barely Opening Clematis, 2009)
5 comments:
I think this is often the case! Sometimes we need to understand the whys, but often we get bogged down in them - maybe forever. The whys and the explanations...over and over again.
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I feel safe saying that everyone who visits your blog is wishing you comfort and love as you go through this time. I know I am!
Excellent message here.
What am I gonna do, indeed.
Thanks for this powerful prompt. And for sharing the insight coming your way in the midst of your sadness and loss.
{{Sending you peace and much love.}}
It's inspiring that you find the positive out of otherwise sad situations. Your friend sounds like she was a wonderful person.
Much metta to you my friend and to Marcy too.
What am I gonna do ?
Well, you prompted me to post all about it over on my blog
http://andabowloforangestoo.blogspot.com/
But the short answer is that I'm going to start another 100 day challenge for myself.
The yoga challenge is working wonderfully for me. Day 54 today and I have never been so faithful to any such endeavour. ONly 1 day missed (I was SOOOOO Sick on Saturday).
I think it's worth repeating... I just don't want to mess up the one I have going now with "competing interests".
Any suggestions?
Again, thank you for kind words regarding some difficult days here in the Lilypad.
And yet, resistance of this is also futile, for there is beauty and love and wisdom to be found everywhere, as there is no such thing as "good" and "bad," because everything just is what it is.
I know this is geeky but...
On an episode of Xena, she tells the people that the Gods cannot really know LOVE because they never know LOSS.
Oh, wise Xena... :)
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